The grocery store is to the working woman what the water cooler is to the business office.
This morning as I grocery shopped, I ran into a friend that I hadn’t seen in a long time and hadn’t talked to in forever. We talked. And talked. My frozen whipped topping thawed. My raw pink pot roast browned with age. We talked. It felt good. When we bid each other good-bye, it seemed as if we had only spent mere moments in conversation.
Part of our conversation dealt with grandchildren. (Does a conversation ever go by that a grandmother doesn’t somehow bring up her wonderful grandchildren?)
Denise mentioned two things that she did to connect to her grandchildren who lived out of state. She said that she bought lots of yellow envelopes. Bright lemon yellow ones. She uses them when she sends letters or cards to her grandchildren. That way, her grandchildren can easily see when they have mail and they know immediately that it is from Grandma Denise. I really liked that idea. And not just because my favorite color is yellow.
Denise also said that she uses perfume to help make a connection with her grandchildren. She wears the same kind when they visit so they connect that smell with her. Then, when she sends a birthday box, she makes sure the scent of her perfume is in the box. She didn’t say exactly what she did. Maybe she adds a spritz to the inside of the box or to the wrapping paper. (You could do the same thing with the yellow envelopes so their cards and letters would smell lovely, too.)
I think that is an absolutely great idea!! And it is such an easy thing to do. Everyone knows that smells trigger recollections of experiences — and what a wonderful thing it is to have a (good) smell remind a grandchild of a loving grandmother!