Joy in Reading with Grandchildren

One day, an elementary school teacher started saying, “Humpty Dumpty sat on a _______.” She paused, looking expectantly to her students, waiting for them to fill in the missing word. After a long pause, a little girl timidly said, “A chair?”

How sad it is that we are losing the tradition of handing down nursery rhymes from one generation to the next! Nursery rhymes provide rich opportunities for children to hear the rhythm of spoken language, to hear ‘short stories’, and to be introduced into the wonderful world of reading.

It has been said that reading is to the mind as exercise is to the body.  (Boy howdy! Then my brain is svelte and comely!)  The United Nations Educational, Scientific and Cultural Organization says that literacy “enables individuals to achieve their goals, to develop their knowledge and potential, and to participate fully in their community and wider society.”

I like the part where it says ‘develop their knowledge and potential.”  As a mother and grandmother, that opportunity resonates with me and makes me want to read, read, read to my children and grandchildren.

Research shows that we should continue reading aloud to children even after they can read themselves.  When our children were in junior high, they thought that they were too grown up for bedtime stories.  Plus, their evenings were so full of activities and homework, it was hard to find family reading time. But, I didn’t want to let go of that special reading time together.  So, I read to them while they ate breakfast.  I found that they (and my husband!) lingered longer over their meal so they could hear ‘what happened next!’

Research also claims that children need to hear a thousand stories before they can begin to learn to read.  Grandparents can relieve parents from some of that burden by reading, reading, and reading to their grandchildren! So, make sure you take every opportunity to read to your grandchildren.

I recently learned how readers are 300% more likely than non-readers to visit museums, attend plays or concerts, and create artworks of their own.  They are also more likely to volunteer, exercise, play sports, attend sporting events, or do outdoor activities.  What a wide impact reading has!  (And you thought that reading to your grandchildren just helped them develop a love of reading!)

I have two reading ideas to share with you.  First, create a reading center in your home.  We all know how expensive books are.  Get cheaper books at thrift stores or used bookstores or even your local library that might occasionally sell books for a small fee. Have Grandpa build some shelves for your books.  Buy some child sized chairs — banana chairs or bean bag chairs — or have big over-sized pillows and make it an inviting reading place.

You could allow your grandchildren to ‘check out’ a book that interests them — making sure that they return it to your lending library.  Or, you could even let them keep the book (these cheap books from the thrift store).

Second, sponsor a read-a-thon.  Get lots of pillows, wear your pajamas, and have cozy blankets to lay on or wrap up in to give it a festive flair.

A read-a-thon could be tricky for really young grandchildren.  Maybe the read-a-thon only lasts for half an hour where Grandma reads nursery rhymes, fairy tales, or other age appropriate books.  And then end it with a pizza party or simply cookies and milk.

If your grandchildren can read, they can bring their favorite book (a short one) and read it to everybody. Or they could read one of the books from your book collection. Or, have everybody read silently for half an hour then take a break for 5 minutes and then read for another half an hour.  You’ll have to adjust the amount of reading time to the age level of your grandchildren.

There are many, many fine books that you can share with your grandchildren. Here are some of my favorites that have crossed my path recently.

Books for young children:

  • the Llama, Llama series
  • the Olivia series
  • the Scaredy Squirrel series
  • The Incredible Book Eating Boy
  • the Flat Stanley series
  • Duck on a Bile
  • No David and David Goes to School
  • Too Many Toys

For middle aged readers:

  • The Ranger’s Apprentice
  • The Pictures of Hollis Woods
  • Walk Two Moons
  • Holes
  • The Whipping Boy
  • Mississippi Trial
  • Roll of Thunder, Hear My Cry

For young adult readers:

  • The Disreputable History of Frankie Landau (love, love, love this book and ditto for the next one!)
  • The Eyre Affair (but you need to read Jane Eyre first to really appreciate this book)
  • The Thirteenth Tale
  • The Life of Pi
  • The Astonishing Life of Octavian Nothing
  • The Book Thief
  • Goodnight, Mister Tom

What are some of your favorite books to read to your grandchildren?  What fun reading activities have you done with them?

This post is part of a blog carnival on About.com:Grandparents. Check it out.  There are TONS of great information and links to follow!

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4 Comments so far

  1. robin grant on August 27th, 2010

    Hi! I wanted to email you a question but the address on your contact page wont work. Can you send me the correct email address? Thanks

  2. Susan Adcox on September 7th, 2010

    What wonderful research you uncovered! Who would have thought that a child needs to hear a thousand stories before learning to read. When my grandchildren spend the night, we read at least three books before going to sleep. Sometimes three is all that Grannie can handle before falling asleep!

  3. Gaya on September 17th, 2010

    I just loved this article. I have been trying to create awareness among parents about reading to their little ones and your ideas of creating a reading space was just great.

    I own an onlinebookstore(http://www.wingsandquillskids.com) and you’ve just inspired me to open up a section for cheap second hand books so that grandparents could buy some really good books.

    Once again thank you and please keep inspiring us parents with your lovely posts.

  4. Deanna Severs on October 22nd, 2010

    In July my Children’s Book, ”Addie’s World”
    was published….
    Please check it out! the book trailer is on
    you tube….(:

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